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It’s strange that “About the Author” bios are always written in the third person. Why pretend that someone else wrote this? I’m Mark D. Diehl. I write books.
I grew up in Iowa City, Iowa. I lived alone with my mom, who I will generously describe as unpredictable. Eventually everyone learns that life is unfair, but some of us figure out early on that usually it is made so by someone in a position of power. By the time I was twelve, I had a seething contempt for authority, and my heroes were criminals. After failing classes in junior high and high school, I somehow managed to attend and graduate from the University of Iowa.
Without money or family support, there was no way I could start my own business, but the idea of working my way up through the ranks of some company sickened me. South Korea was developing rapidly at that time, and I imagined that finding inroads to the economy there might allow me to become my own boss sooner than I would any other way. I took a job teaching English in Taegu, South Korea, which is where I met my wife, Jennifer. (The first year of our relationship, which culminated in our escape from her powerful family and Korean authorities, inspired my memoir, Stealing Cinderella: How I Became an International Fugitive for Love.)
Korea’s hierarchical and authoritarian society both fascinated and terrified me. Its control over everyone there was so total and so brutal that Jennifer and I consider ourselves lucky to have escaped it. Ours is not so much a story of fighting against peopleas it is one of resistance to a system,one which I came to warily respect. In the Korean people, I saw strength and resolve that could only have developed over thousands of years of invasions and shortages, and I recognized that the parts I treasured most about my own culture had evolved in an environment of relative abundance. It became clear to me that the rigidity I struggled against was the very thing that made Korean society so efficient, productive, and strong.
In the years following our return from Korea, I went to law school at the University of Iowa and ended up practicing with a multinational law firm. There I recognized the same kinds of structure that I’d seen in Korea, with level upon level of hierarchy, stifled individuality, and institutionalized suspicion of anything different. Knowing I wouldn’t survive there for long, I attended a two-year graduate workshop in creative writing at the University of Chicago, where I began working on a dystopian science-fiction trilogy set in an oppressive, hierarchical future world whose supply of natural resources has nearly been exhausted.
Jennifer and I have lived for the last decade or so in Cape Elizabeth, Maine, along with our daughter Myra, a slew of rescued reptiles, and a one-eyed dog. I founded a local-centric business networking group here, hoping to help preserve the American respect for independence and individual will, and even ran for the Maine State Senate. I’ve now accepted that there’s no way to halt our society’s (and really, the world’s) momentum, so these days, I mostly sit by myself and write.
Excerpts
I’ve been interviewed many times over the years for books, articles, and blogs, which means I’ve ended up with a collection of answers to most of the questions anyone would want to ask me. I have posted it all here on my website.
Mark D. Diehl
Many writers focus primarily on how their characters relate to one another. My books, however, tend to center around characters’ interactions with society and its structures. In Stealing Cinderella, Jennifer and I barely survive our battle against Korean social machinery. In my dystopian sci-fi trilogy Seventeen, Eadie, Wanda and others struggle against a brutal corporatocracy.
New Release
24 years ago, after an exhausting struggle against my employer, Jennifer’s powerful family, most of Korean society, and three different governments, Jennifer and I were married in Hong Kong. This true story is now a book called Stealing Cinderella: How I Became an International Fugitive for Love. It will be released on October 7, 2019.
FEATURED BOOK
Stealing Cinderella
Memoir“I’m used to being excluded and feeling unwelcome. I’ve been a hoodlum my whole life. They want to tell me I’m stealing her? Fuck it. Okay, I’m stealing her.” --Mark D. Diehl, South Korea, 1994
I arrived in South Korea with $20 and a dubious offer to teach English. Jennifer was the wickedly smart, fiercely independent second daughter of one of Korea's most influential families. We fell in love in a country where even sitting together brought angry stares, taunts, and threats. Our employer forbade us from seeing each other, but we continued in secret. Eventually, her family became suspicious and had her followed. Their efforts to separate us in the days that followed were relentless and violent. We were forced to abandon everything and flee to Hong Kong, where our situation only became more dire.